Friday, 4 March 2011

Is L**E .. LifE or LovE ??

hi~ i'm back !! so .. what's the topic about today ?? it's both life and love .. not love and death =) haha .. sry .. was just being lame for awhile .. shiok sendiri .. okok .. how am i suppose to start ~ ok .. love .. what's love ? if u ask me , i don't really know .. i'm not a love doctor or something like that .. but since one of my fren asked me to post something about relationships , so why not ?? rite ?? hehe .. better than having nothing to write about .. so, lets start !!

 phone calls .. a great way to contact each other .. keeping a relationship healthy and loving ~ haha .. ain't healthy for your health that's for sure (radiation) .. 

many of us call each other , to keep up with each other , asking how's your day , wanting to know your whereabouts , because they have developed this feeling of "need-to-know" or izzit a thought ?? on a daily basis , they tell each other how was their day .. is that even a need to do so ?? mayb , for some people .. mayb they're just worried?? i think so too .. we tend to forget to ask ourselves , if he/she were to be together with this particular person .. 

(i'm putting myself in their shoe now)
1st: will i be happy ??
2nd: is this the person the right person for me??
3rd: how's my life gonna be with this person ??
4th: how far will i go with this person ??
(these are a few common questions)

the question that most of us never ask or think of it is , what will his/her life be without that person .. if we're talking about a person who we're gonna spend the rest of our life with this particular person without asking ourselves this question , WE'RE DOOMED !!!!
oh no~ just YOU !! haha .. why is this question important ??? i'll tell you why ..

1) are u gonna spend ur life with someone who sticks on to you ??
2) with that person smsing you or calling you , asking where are you, who you're with or when will you get back home .. are you gonna have a healthy career ?? would u live ur life with a person (stalker) like that ?? .. not forgetting that you're gonna be with that person for a longgggg longgggg time ~

i know , some of you may think , this is caring or bla bla bla .. sorry to burst your bubble , but if you've just started getting into a relationship , you wouldn't realize it "yet" .. many of us tend to be "blinded by love" .. who said your wife or husband has to be pretty or handsome ?? if that's the case , those that you classify as fat and ugly , izzin suppose to have a love life ?? 

yes , we tend to look at the outer appearance 1st .. if u don't pass looks, you'll fail the other criteria .. right ?? gawd ~ let me guess .. u guys would wanna ask me "would you marry a fat or ugly woman" right ?? answer to that question is that , if fate really brings the both of us together then ya .. so what's your answer ?? no thank you ?? 

looks are deceiving .. not may be deceiving , but they are!! having doubts about me and what i say ?? you'll see it one day ~


enough with me and you .. now lets talk about what everyone does when they're in love .. they're willing to share everything (eg; secrets , stories from the past n etc. etc.)

boy:here .. have my heart
girl:thanks.. here's mine too ..

they switched their heart ?!?!?!?! o.0 .. no ~ literally .. this shows how much they love each other ?? no .. they're blinded by love too~ i know, this post is about good stuff and bla bla bla .. but i can't help thinking of what the truth really is .. i'm not trying to bring your hopes down or whatsoever .. but i'm trying to tell you what's really happening out there ..

love is a battlefield eh ?? yes .. you're the puppet which people are gonna use as a target practice .. BE SMART !!! be a soldier !! not a puppet ..

okok~ i know that you wouldn't want my post to end up making your face sour , with an angry feeling .. i'll stop ..

so.. here's a new start.. below~
 does your love ones tell you that they're constantly thinking of you ?? this , i do believe .. we tend to think of those ppl who we're always with and together .. i won't deny the fact that this is true .. 

hehe .. it only depends on what they're thinking of with you ~~~ in future (kareema , i know that u know what i mean =) hehe )

take this pic for example .. emo cat needs love .. when ppl are desperate , this is how they look like .. big sparkling eyes

some of us are afraid of going after those we like or have feelings for..
tell him/her how you feel .. you won't regret it .. but please, know each other longer before u get together .. haha .. study each other more =)

if you end up with break-ups .. please don't be like the person on top .. i've encountered many of these kinda people .. they're not easy to deal with .. they'll be like

guy: chun kit .. please help me .. i don't know what to do..
chun kit: how may i help you ??
guy: i got dumped!!!
((chun kit: you're dumb then !!!)just joking ..haha) 
chun kit: and you want me to???
guy: help me get her back

this is a sign of desperation !!! ==

chun kit: sure.. how about you help me, help you .. by 1st telling me what happened
(guy explains n bla bla bla )

tell you something .. they got dumped coz it was their fault !!! so why brood over it and complain about your own mistakes ??? but usually i help them up .. so after a long chat .. they knew their problem .. so please .. come to me if u have problems .. don't keep everything up inside and sit in a corner n kill urself slowly ==
 this is what i always tell everyone !!

if making your heart smile is possible , why can't everyone just be happy ?? no need for sad faces or emo-ing (if that's what u call it)

ah !! this pic .. it reminds me of some people .. some ppl tie their love ones like that !!! haha .. security purposes !!!

i'm jumping all over the place == please forgive me .. this is a topic which i usually try to avoid...

ok .. in this pic .. couples quarrel .. yes ... this is a difficult way to know more about each other .. having quarrels once a week is ok =) sometimes it gets funny .. haha .. where they're not loving any more , they tend to scold each other vulgarities , and they seem to be numbed to it .. haha ..

 but some couldn't take it .. so it's time to hit the papers

some will split for some time ... and after a few days, they realized that they felt lost without each other .. so they forgive each other and make out == or made up ?? hahaha

a little laughter wouldn't hurt after such a long and boring "article"  hahaha .. okok.. continue .. wait wait .. u know something ?? i feel like i'm talking to myself while blogging == this is weird ..

more pics of kisses ?? or forgiving each other ?? or bla bla bla .. i dunno .. i just like how the sun is positioned in this pic ..




okok !! enuf with boring stuff !! this is what i do best !!! make u guys laugh after a long tired day !!!

enjoy~

we were talking about love right ??? this is how MJ showed love to his face .. 

wondering why doesn't it drop during his concerts .. haha .. how he's "gone" , so we have no chance to experience it !! 

MJ: hey~ how would this nose look for tonight's concern ??
MJ's Lackey: sir, you look fabulistically awesome !!
MJ: really ?? thanks .. how aobut me without the nose ??
MJ's lackey: i think you better get a paperbag!!


 owners love for dogs and guns !! shouldn't it go woof woof woof instead of pew pew pew ??  haha


tell me , where can u find love which is more loving than this ?? 


 looks like me and my bro == hahaha


if u feel that you need a change in life.. this is the way to start it off =)


RC PPL !!! OUR LION!!!! hahahahaha


drunkard showing his passion and love for his cans of emply beer == wonder what's at the bottom of the tub  .. beer ?? or water??
 life can't get better than this !!


ah !! my last pic .. and the end of my post .. forgive me if this post is boring .. i dun really know much about relationships .. so i can't explain much .. but what life is ?? haha .. i'll pass u an encyclopedia =)

hope that it wasn't toooooooo boring .. 

=END!! chaoz~=

2 comments:

  1. In depth and wise.
    Beats all forms of stupid teenage angst =)

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  2. haha~at first u like,avoiding love..haha~bt nice 1 again~thx ya~ Jess

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